What’s a “goal” but something that tends to get in the way?
To achieve a self respected level of success requires the guts to set a major chunk of what you’ve grown accustom to aside. New and improved needs space and that means facing as well as accepting change. More importantly reprogramming coworkers, family members and your other twelve personalities that something new is being moved in and it doesn’t matter what’s said or done getting off the path isn’t going to happen.
It’s not that we give up easy. We let other people do it for us. The moment you give permission to someone to make up your mind and or decide the steps of an assumed importance…expect it to bite you in the a** during the years when you whisper to the image in the mirror, “I wonder what would’ve happened if?”
Who has the time to readjust? The top goal is to give it to a spouse or friend to hold. They know you! They feel your energy! They support every decision you make! You’ll one day turn on them and scream,
“Why did you let this happen?”
Ummm wow that one kinda hurts.
If what’s been projected is truly geared toward being a happy place then the first rule to follow is accepting the role of defusing manipulating master controllers you put in charge of protecting your heart.
If professional bowling was meant to be easy…dogs and cats would’ve taken up the sport in the 70’s.
I love the idea that Carolina Panther Cam Newton is throwing a billion yards and not coming out with a Sunday victory. Legends require shape. Losses generate hunger which fires up a reprogramming device allowing him to become a teacher and through his lessons and open communication with players there shall be a Steelers wall that will dominate the mind, body and soul of armchair quarterback Hall of Famer’s.
It doesn’t matter if you’re crunching numbers in your late 20’s, 30, 40’s and beyond becoming a champion cannot fall into the ranks of the description labeled: Late in the game?
Wasn’t Betsy Ross something like 200 when she sewed thirteen stars and stripes together?
Life begins when you let it. Don’t just make a goal. Break it down! You’ll feel incredibly positive and from that sprouts confidence. That’s the tiny print junk required to leap over dead shrubs and black snakes sporting copperhead Halloween costumes.
Stop relying on the encouragement of others and coach yourself through the mess.
I don’t accept compliments because those doing the offering usually end up wanting something. If you think I’m good, then let me teach you how I got this mud on my face. To properly stick your foot in your mouth requires precision and the wrong thing to say at the right time. Not everybody can do it! Rather than say, “Wow you are great at being an imp!” Let me show you what it’s really like to be the imp. Once you experience my reality then you can say, “Nobody can imp like you imp and whatever magic you use to put that foot in that mouth every time is just flat out impishly spectacular.”
When the boss slams your Monday into overtime or he’s benched you for not living up to his bosses expectations; roll forward. No matter what challenges you face ultimately you are in full control of the final destination. Hate your job…get a new one. Doing the job because you need insurance stop complaining and keep looking for a better job.
America hasn’t reached the final two minutes of the game…we just act like it.
Put that helmet on and get your newly shaped attitude back in the sport and find something other than victory to pull from the end zone. Maybe just maybe…you’re soul purpose is to teach the man or woman who shall become the next big something. If you do your job right; there’s not enough money in the world that pays off more than someone saying, “Thanks.”
I will always believe in you first…
arroecollins@clearchannel.com
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