You Don't Need A Black Belt To Beat A Bully

How is it possible to take a dark unfulfilling thought shouted, emailed, text or Face Booked then turn it into positive? Yeah right! How numb is numb when numb keeps feeling something? Let's break it down! Coworker, family member anybody sitting in a chair or busy rush hour traffic... Boom! Biff! Pow! Zap! Ouch! Ouch! I'm calling my Mom! An automobile would never pass its annual inspection! The margarita making blender would be tossed out and the very second a skyscraping tree begins to creak chainsaws slice into its depth of perception. Human's are different. Without a legal license "Constructive" criticism has been driven into a constant. Even worse are the occasions when heavy equipment such as your brain and heart are being operated by someone under the influence of boxed merchandise, which can be anything from cold pills to cheap wine straight to the puffy type big companies say are not addictive. Getting hit hard by accusations, hand written snail mail letters or smart phone choices of communication has a way of festering beneath the several shades of skin that grow, fall off and quickly return. Sit in any mall! Take your nose out of a restaurant menu. View the patrons of a grocery store! Verbal abuse comes across as the new cool! Our best defense is to let it hit you then walk away. Yeah ok... Even as a second degree Black Belt it seems almost untrue when Master's shout, "You aren't trained to fight! You're trained to maintain self control." Julio with his thick rich Latin accent would set fire to the training room, "Believe in the number three! They come at you...that's once! They come again...that's twice! On the third attack the best you can offer is an easy escape. For you! You don't want blood! Aids kill! No Aids!" We all know words can be extremely powerful. What we don't see eye to eye with is how being extremely clear with the chosen thoughts shared does more damage to the abuser than the one receiving. What? The Laws of Attraction make the rules not a radio disc jockey waiting for his next stage to suddenly appear on any radio station in America. It's falls into the category Native American's call Black Magic... For you to cast outward at someone your words, evil premonitions and or wishes the aggressive behavior cannot achieve unless what's been said has actually been lived by the one tossing things out like the scent of bad hamburger meat. Think about it! Who in the unreleased chapters has spoken to this person the very way they are sharing communication with you? The cold rotten horrifying filth that lives beneath their presence was planted then lived out before it made its way to you. Nobody is born evil... Darth Vader was once a good guy! What's the best way to handle the height of someone else's anger, depression or lack of spirit for your adventuresome life and style? The Laws of Attraction teach us to bury yourself in Gratitude. Put a rock in your pocket! Each time someone you believe to be close to you hits you upside the heart...touch the rock and think about one of your best times ever with this person. Bathe yourself in everything positive and through each bullied moment believe it or not a leaf belonging to the seeds of positive begin to take shape. According to the book The Magic there's a distinct possibility that we're quick to take on an aggressive email or text without ever thinking about what we write could in fact kick up the heat higher than intended therefore fueling every reason for the aggressor to spit tobacco on your shirt and shoes. Be aware of Gratitude at all times. Load up your biggest pockets with great things you'd like to share with your coworkers, family members and weird people sitting in a chair. Then instead of firing off a bullet full of hate or meanness, lace up your tennis shoes and prepare to run. Away? No... Negative people are like the wicked witch in The Wizard Of Oz...they melt oh so sweetly when there's no reason to fight, fend off or revert to odd ball points of view sent their way. It seems so Disney until you find reason in understanding that no man nor woman was born to rip another a part. What you're accepting as them being them is what they've lived. Through the Laws of Attraction what you say can offer incredible change. I will always believe in you first... arroe.net